I love music, and it’s better with your best friends.
I bought my first CD and CD player for Christmas in 1987. We went for lunch to my friend Philip Israel who had bought himself the same gifts. When we announced the happy occasion to our wives the temperature dropped rapidly, and we were lucky to have not had a white Christmas. It taught me to never advertise your gadget upgrades.
Hi to all! My name is Paul Pereira. At the time of writing this (01 July 2020), I am 47 years old and NO – I do not attend AA meetings 😊.
Hmmm … how did I get to have the privilege of joining this wonderful group of people?
Well, Liezel was usually Karen’s +1. Liezel and I have known each other for years. We then decided to marry in January 2019, and that was my “short-left” which gave me access to this amazing Music Evening Group.
I joined the group for the first time around May 2019. Now understand something upfront – music has never been a strongpoint of mine – it doesn’t define me, nor drive me. I don’t purposefully walk into music shops, or go online, to see what the latest-and-greatest stuff is.
I don’t know most artists by name, nor their songs, nor what they even look like. In fact, if I ever landed up on a music show, I would have people throwing rotten tomatoes at me, or whatever they carry on them, at me. No chance of bra’s, or even flowers – that’s how bad I am!
So imagine the day I was to join the group on our first music evening – I felt quite out of sorts, only knowing one person there (Karen). I wasn’t sure what to expect, or how they would react to my choices. I was really hoping I didn’t make any real boo-boo’s, so I was quite still and watched intensely until my turn came. I made my choices wisely for that evening and played it safe with stuff I know – ABBA and Queen.
Whew! Needless to say, I survived the night (LOL), and even got a few compliments.
So fast forward till today, after a few more Music Evenings.
The group is such a great bunch, what can I say! Different backgrounds, professions, ages, it’s just one, big “deurmekaar spul” of awesomeness. And there’s no judging (ok, maybe a little when it comes to Arno LOL).
As the obvious “willing apprentice” in the group, I have (and will still) learn so much from them. I see how music means so much to them, and how they enjoy it for their own reasons. I’m learning about the songs and their origins, what it means to the people, and why it touches them in the deepest of places. I get to see things I never knew existed. Talents I never knew were possible.
The emotion is so real in Errol’s lounge, as the music and all it’s attachments spills over to me and makes me feel the songs a whole new way. It’s just an amazing culmination of different people with immense diversity in their music backgrounds, who get to enjoy an evening together. I can tell you honestly, that the group has changed my whole outlook on music.
A truly amazing thing ………
The first record I ever bought with my hard-earned pocket money was David Cassidy’s single “Walking in the Rain”. I am not sure whether I loved the music, but I am certain that I was in love with David. I was 11.
I was fortunate growing up in a musical home, so I cannot imagine life without it. This group of like-minded people is very special to me, and I treasure the friendships that have grown through our shared love of music.
I’m Lynda Feldhaus and I’m here for the good wine as well as the forum it creates to share time with very special people and to learn more about other music genres and listen to the most amazing variety of music!
When visiting Chez R & Z, you can be assured of wholesome food, lots of wine, colourful sunsets and interesting music.
We share similar tastes in music and enjoy a variety that stretches from the Allman Brothers to ZZ Tops, from Amadeus to Ziggy Stardust, from the Ames Brothers to Led Zeppelin and includes Beethoven, Baccarach, Buena Vista Social Club, Bing, the Beatles and Boney M. Our music collection starts in the Appalachian Mountains and ends in Zagreb.
You are welcome to drop in and celebrate with us!
When visiting Chez R & Z, you can be assured of wholesome food, lots of wine, colourful sunsets and interesting music.
We share similar tastes in music and enjoy a variety that stretches from the Allman Brothers to ZZ Tops, from Amadeus to Ziggy Stardust, from the Ames Brothers to Led Zeppelin and includes Beethoven, Baccarach, Buena Vista Social Club, Bing, the Beatles and Boney M. Our music collection starts in the Appalachian Mountains and ends in Zagreb.
You are welcome to drop in and celebrate with us!
The story of the Music Evening
The story of the music evening has its roots in a time before the internet, cell phones, computers, or even facsimile machines. So, you will excuse me digressing a little and telling you a tale of two paths that eventually made the music evenings possible.
Tale 1: The love of music
Growing up, our home was filled with music and song. My mother and father sang together beautifully. My mother played the guitar and my grandfather, who lived with us while I was little, played the ‘traporrel’ (pump organ). Every evening at prayer time after dinner we would heartily sing together and make music.
At a young age, I learned to play the electric organ and guitar, often playing and singing my Mom’s favourites for her.
Because our family was actively involved in the church, it meant we also sang and played musical instruments in the church.
We always had a radio gramophone and a collection of old ’78 records of popular music, mostly from the ’30s, ’40s and ’50s, that my mother and I used to sing to.
My own music collection started in earnest in my early working years when I befriended Cecile Kirchner, who at the time headed up the record library at the SABC. When the SABC started migrating to CDs in the ’70s, I got hundreds of well cared for, good quality LPs from her that are still in my collection. I wasn’t picky, I took everything she was happy to pass on and that broadened my appreciation and love for a broad spectrum of music.
Of course, when you have lots of records to play, you need things to play them on. And that is part of my next tale.
Tale 2: The love of things that make music loud
It was at school that I was first diagnosed with Gadgetitus, something that has plagued me for my entire adult life. By the time I finished school the affliction had forced me into a career in electronics at SAA. I was lucky enough to work with Morris Bay, a keen pianist (he had two grand pianos at home!), who built sound and speaker systems for a hobby. His musical ear and technical knowledge taught me about quality of reproduced sound.
About that time, I was also introduced to my lifelong friend Johan Benade, an audiophile of note. Johan sparked my interest in high-quality audio equipment – the things that make music loud (and beautiful). Over the years, we have continued you share our love for music and the sounds our audio systems produce. As an aside, we both passionately believe that there is no finer sound reproduction than that from good vinyl.
Eventually – the music evenings!
In 2004, I invited two very good Toastmasters friends for dinner at my home. Lynette Evler, who has since retired to a small town in the middle of nowhere, and our beloved friend Adri, who passed recently. We shared a love for music, had things that made it loud and found it goes best with great company. Adri suggested we do it more often and so the music evenings were born.
The early music evenings were just about music we could dance to, and everyone brought their own music – on LP, 7-single, cassette tape, CD, or DVD, or iPod. Richard even used to bring his own minidisk player, which we connected to my sound system! Once I installed a projector, we sat down to watch some of the music and the evenings became a little more structured. The next big change was the themes, which I think may have started about 10 years ago. We have little information on the music played in those early sessions as no records were kept.
Over time, as the internet became more accessible, more and more people were choosing music videos, resulting in the format we use now. As you all now send your music to me, we have very good records of our music evenings since 2016.
Music is a vital part of my life. I can’t imagine being without it for a single day. And you are the people that teach me about music, make me laugh about music, make me love it even more. Long may it continue.
Here’s to a future of music evenings with you!
Errol












