From Monday 4 August 2025
Close Encounters of the Musical Kind
This theme is all about personal connection.
The song you share must come from an artist you’ve had a real-life interaction with—someone you’ve actually met. That means:
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A handshake
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A hug or high five
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An autograph moment
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A meal shared
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Or even a full-on Andy Byron treatment 🙂
If you haven’t had the pleasure of a personal moment, there’s a backup option:
Choose a song by an artist you’ve seen in person—at a live show or even just crossing paths on the street.
But that option is only valid if you don’t qualify for the first category.
This theme celebrates not just music, but the stories and memories that come from real human connection.
Tell us about it!
Deborah
Johannes Kerkorrel – Halala Afrika
Those of you who have been here for a while may know that I LOVED Johannes Kerkorrel. I know, a bit weird for an Engelse meisie, but there’s a story.
In the late 1990’s – LBW (Long Before Wilfredo) I went to the Grahamstown festival a few years in a row, they were the most wonderful experiences.
The first time I saw JK perform was at my first festival, and I was instantly hooked. His lyrics were powerful, clever, and ahead of their time, mostly addressing political and social issues during the apartheid era. Something about the way he moved on stage completely drew me in. He was mesmerising to watch.
At the time, we were friendly with an a cappella group called Cutt Glass who, in addition to having their own shows at the festival, used to sing backing vocals for JK, so he quite often hung out in the crowd with us and the Cutt Glass girls. He was a gentle, endearing character, quiet and almost shy, in absolute contrast to his dynamic stage presence.
A lovely memory from my very early music evening days, back when we used to bring a CD to play our song, is of Adri and me both bringing the same CD with the intention of playing the same JK song. What were the chances? 🙂
I have chosen “Halala Afrika” as it is one of the few songs that has an accompanying video. (Unfortunately, no videos online of his incredible live performances.) This song was initially part of a tour that sparked controversy and led to him being placed under police surveillance. Those were the days.
Richard
Yesterday When I was Young – Rumba :: Charles Aznavour & M Dance Studio
Paul
Prime Circle – As Long As I Am Here
Tonight’s choice was an easy one.
Prime Circle has played a truly special role in both Jayden’s life and mine. I first connected with their music when Jay was just two years old. One song in particular swept me into that heady space of “early love” — the butterflies, the thrill of meeting someone who leaves you breathless. It felt like Ross had somehow climbed into my thoughts and turned them into music.
Why Prime Circle? There are so many reasons.
Because I didn’t just get to see them live — I met them.
Because the very first time I did was at Lusito Land, where they gave their time and talent freely to raise funds for Jayden’s special needs school, Lusito.
Because that fundraiser meant I could pay a quarter of what I would have as a single parent — giving my son access to the kind of education he deserved.
Because they were the real deal. They didn’t just perform once and vanish. They came to the school. They sat in a circle with the kids, played guitar, learned their names. They showed up.
Because to this day, when I play their music or say their names, Jayden lights up.
And because later in life, I met the MadPorra and his bestie — two incredible humans whose favourite band just so happened to be Prime Circle. And just like before, the band treated them like family, remembering fans by name, showing up with heart.
So tonight, I choose Prime Circle — for all of this, and so much more.
Ahhhh hun. That was his birthday and it was a surprise and he had no idea. Well …. We “rocked” ???? up at Scarlet Ribbon and he was still asking “What the hell are we doing at an events company premises?” And then he heard this innocent voice right behind us going “Hey howzit guys!”. It was Dale Schnettler, the band’s drummer! Well …. He didn’t know what was going on or what to say. He wasn’t sure whether he was there by accident until he realised they were playing – and the rest of the night was history! He got hammered (obvious by the pics) and we had an absolute blast. Thanks for the joint memories hun – wow! ❤Ahhhh hun. That was his birthday and it was a surprise and he had no idea. Well …. We “rocked” ???? up at Scarlet Ribbon and he was still asking “What the hell are we doing at an events company premises?” And then he heard this innocent voice right behind us going “Hey howzit guys!”. It was Dale Schnettler, the band’s drummer! Well …. He didn’t know what was going on or what to say. He wasn’t sure whether he was there by accident until he realised they were playing – and the rest of the night was history! He got hammered (obvious by the pics) and we had an absolute blast. Thanks for the joint memories hun – wow! ❤Ahhhh hun. That was his birthday and it was a surprise and he had no idea. Well …. We “rocked” ???? up at Scarlet Ribbon and he was still asking “What the hell are we doing at an events company premises?” And then he heard this innocent voice right behind us going “Hey howzit guys!”. It was Dale Schnettler, the band’s drummer! Well …. He didn’t know what was going on or what to say. He wasn’t sure whether he was there by accident until he realised they were playing – and the rest of the night was history! He got hammered (obvious by the pics) and we had an absolute blast. Thanks for the joint memories hun – wow! ❤






Wilfred
Bryan Adams – Summer Of 69
CLOSE ENCOUNTERS OF THE MUSICAL KIND
(…or, in my case, close-but-no-cigar)
Strap in for a heart-wrenching tale of music, justice denied, and a missed opportunity to rock out with a Canadian legend.
Many years ago, when I was still a youthful child in my early 30s, I went to Sun City with a some friends to see none other than Bryan Adams live in concert. Anticipation? Sky high. Spirits? Soaring. Expectations? Through the roof.
We hit the floor, ready to shake it up…
Then the wheels came off.
Enter: Stephanie.
Now Stephanie, bless her wild heart, decided to get into a full-on WWE brawl with a random girl next to us. Hair pulling. Kicking. General chaos.
Being the noble knight that I am, I leapt in to break it up…
Enter: Bouncers.
With the speed and diplomacy of caffeinated rhinos, they grabbed me and Stephanie and unceremoniously ushered us out before the show even started. No explanation. No trial. Just boom, exiled to the carpeted hallway of despair.
As we sat there, sulking and occasionally plotting revenge, the faint sounds of the crowd and Bryan’s raspy voice filtered through the walls like the ghost of joy lost.
And THEN…
Like a mirage in denim and dreams—Bryan Adams himself ran past us in the hallway.
He literally ran right past us.
I could’ve tripped him.
I didn’t.
Growth.
So no, I didn’t get to see him perform.
But I DID have a close encounter—corridor-level proximity. And that counts (per the bylaws of this theme. I checked).
So here it is:
Summer of ’69 by Bryan Adams.
A song I never got to hear live… but was emotionally assaulted by through drywall.
P.S. The video even starts with Bryan running down a corridor—eerily reminiscent of our moment. Coincidence? Definitely. But let me have this.
Paul
Mango Groove – Special Star
As you heard from Liezel, my friend and I got to meet the Prime Circle guys a few times.
What amazing guys they are, it was our favourite band. And hey – don’t forget there’s a Porra in the mix (Marco Gomes)!
What nice guys, it would not have been possible to have met them if they didn’t always do the Meet-and-Greets after their shows.
I was also fortunate to meet some other locals bands Like Parlotones. Oh, and did you know that Liezel knew Art from Just Jinjer? He was her brother’s mate. Huh!
Anyway, my choice is from another band. It was the first ever live concert I went to. I think I went alone, and boy did I have an absolute blast!
Although I did not get to meet the band face to face, we saw them around quite a lot in those days.
The band is Mango Groove, and they are just my Special Stars that shine!!
Geraldine
Bono Ft. The Edge, Dave & Beyoncé – American Prayer in South Africa Live at 46664 Aids Concert 2003
I was invited by Virgin Atlantic and Sir Richard Branson to the Nelson Mandela 46664 Aids concert 2003 at the old Green point Stadium. We gathered at the Famous Pigalle Restaurant and were introduced to Richard Brandson, Oprah, Madiba and the artists. We were transferred to the stadium by limo’s
The line-up of artists: Bono, Queen, Dave Stewart, Shakira, Beyoncé, Bob Geldof, Peter Gabrial, Yusuf Islam, The Edge, Soweto Gospel Choir and many more. Madiba gave a speech. The concert was
primarily aimed at raising awareness and funds for the global fight against HIV/AIDS and to unite all people globally. An amazing experience.
I choose the song “American Prayer (also called the African Prayer)” performed by Bono, The Edge, Beyoncé and Dave Stewart from a long lists of songs performed.
Errol
Moenie Weggaan Nie (Ne Me Quitte Pas) – Laurika Rauch
Ok mense, I’m almost ready to post a tune.
As may may know, I’m old enough to have attended the Elvis concert when he sang in the Dome in 1968.
But I didn’t, because my mother said all that gyration stuff was sonde, and immediately averted her view of said offending arts.
What i did do was attend a wonderful evening at a restaurant in Rosebank years ago, where Laurika Rauch sang. I sat in the restuarant, but not near the stage. Not like Paul who got drunk with the singer, or Wilfred who got into a fight with the singer.
I love her voice and beautiful interpretations of songs in Afrikaans. She always puts her soul into her songs.
“Ne me quitte pas” (“Don’t leave me”) is a 1959 song by Belgian singer-songwriter Jacques Brel. It has been covered in the original French by many artists and has also been translated into and performed in many other languages. A well-known adaptation, with English lyrics by Rod McKuen, is “If You Go Away”.
Brel wrote “Ne me quitte pas” after actress and dancer Zizou ended their relationship. He called it “a hymn to the cowardice of men,” not a love song.
Here is Laurika singing her Afrikaans version of the song, Moenie Weggaan Nie.
Karen
Just Jinjer – What He Means
In 1996 the hottest band to hit the SA scene was Just Jinger. The company I worked for chose them as entertainment for our end of year party at The Inanda Club
After their set the band joined the party on the dance floor and there were many inebriated girls throwing themselves at these young men, who were “loving” the vibe.
Sad to say I was not one of them because I had just returned to work after maternity leave and was still breastfeeding my firstborn who was 3 months old at the time – so no alcohol for me ????. It always amazes me how different the experience is when you are the designated driver ????.
My close encounter was dancing next to the band members and watching them get handsy with the girls throwing themselves at these new superstars.
The band, which includes frontman Ard Matthews, Brent Harris, and Denholm Harding, reunited in 2016 after a period of solo projects and individual pursuits. They recorded “Everything Since Then” after Matthews moved to Johannesburg to collaborate with Harris and Harding….
Esther
Jan Blohm – Jenny
The first time I met Jan Blohm was at the Bell Tower on the corner of Monument Road and Commissioner Street in 2006. What a phenomenal show it was. Johann and I loved blues, I still love it today. We used to organise shows for Jan at our school with many other Afrikaans artists. Like Koos Kombuis, etc. Jan was addicted for at least ten years. He is currently clean. I went to a live show again on 26 July at Kakiebos pub and grill in Reyton. In all the years I haven’t seen him when I went to to stage he recognised me and came down to greet me. He asked me if Johann was there. I had to tell him Johann passed away. We shared a tear together. Good old memories came back as he sang all the songs we loved.
Paul L
The Spaniard – Lesley Rae Dowling
In the early 80s, just after we were married, Liz and I went to my friends wedding in cape town. Graham, my friend bought me to play guitar and was and still is well known in the cape music scene. He introduced us to Lesley Rae Dowling whose music I absolutely loved. She made 5 albums and several big singles.
She was offered a record real in the states but turned it down because she would have had to do a 3 month road trip, but she hated live performing. She is a tiny beautiful girl with this big deep voice. Wrote all her own stuff and an accomplished pianist.
Zosia
Charl du Plessis plays Me, Blue? Neva!
I am posting slightly early as our “Troubadours” music arrives soon.
When we lived in JHB we attended many a soire often enjoying the music of Charl du Plessis. Charl is one of five Steinway pianists in SA. He played for Nathaniel for twenty years. The last time we went to one of his concerts was for my seventieth birthday in Stellenbosch. I have a photo with him but we cannot find it on the computer. Charl plays classical and jazz. I have chosen one of his own compositions. Me, blue? Neva!